One of the most frantic questions I get all the time is, “Why did he suddenly stop texting me?”
And when I say “suddenly stopped texting”, I don’t mean that he hasn’t texted you in the past couple hours (even if you sent him a dirty question or two.)
I mean that you once texted at a level that felt comfortable to you, but now he’s routinely taking a long time to answer your texts. It feels like he he suddenly lost interest, it doesn’t seem like he’s flirting or interested in you anymore.
Take This Quiz And Find Out Right Now: Why Isn’t He Texting You Back?
Here’s why: however things were before… texting at the moment is feeling like more of a chore or a burden for him.
Why is that?
It’s All About Vibe
To answer that question, I have to talk about a concept I like to call “vibe”.
Your vibe comes from your mood, and it shows through in everything that you do.
It’s not something you can fake – your vibe comes from how you genuinely feel in the privacy of your own mind – and no matter how you’re acting on the outside, your vibe will reflect how you feel on the inside.
A good vibe comes from a positive mood – where you’re feeling relaxed, comfortable, and happy. If you feel good about yourself and your situation – your vibe is good.
Bad vibes come from feelings like insecurity, worrying, and anger. If you’re feeling anxious, or angry at him, or worried about your relationship – it’s going to come through in your vibe and he’ll be able to sense it.
